Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Answer to your problems.

Lately it seems that everyone has become upset about something about their life.
They are now experiencing what i used to struggle with,
And i must say, it has really opened my eyes.
When i was in their position i used to feel like just dying right then and there,
But after hearing about their own suicidal thoughts,
I've realised how stupid they sound, and how stupid i must've been when it was me.
Of course everyone has their ups and downs in life,
After all, it is what makes us grow,
But sometimes our thoughts just dig our own graves.
Now, as a third person bystander, i can see how pathetic such problems are.
Yes, very hypercritical seeing as i used to be just like them,
But now i suppose i've grown out of depression.
After everything i've gone through,
I find depression kinda boring.
Well anyways, this enlightening topic has conjured up more questions.

Why is it so hard to not belong?
This was a huge problem for me a while back.
I now see that when we feel left out, its just a struggle that comes with loneliness.
Loneliness is something that could destroy a person,
But its something all must face eventually.
And sometimes, our loneliness is all in our heads. If you're surrounded by people who accept you and all, whats there left to be lonely about?
Well, i'm not simple-minded enough to believe that but in a way i do.
Though it is a simple question, why do us lowly humans make it out to be so complicated?
I've come to the conclusion that if you have atleast one person who you care about, and they care about you...
Then that's more than you'll ever need to overcome loneliness...

Why does love hurt so much?
Another situation i've struggled with in the past and i suppose a little at the moment.
"Love" such a controversy.
I personally think "love" is overrated.
We humans destroyed its meaning.
Though "love" is well and truly alive in my heart,
In others, perhaps not.
We all have our different views on it, our own objections, but love is love.
You can't define something so universal.
I think "love" isn't what brings pain...
The person you love or who loves you,
Is what brings you pain.
Of course, rejection hurts and so do lies, broken promises, shattered trust, etc.
When you love someone dearly, you change, in many ways.
It makes you feel so secure yet so vulnerable at the same time.
When you love someone, they understand you better, are able to read you because you let them into the deeper depths of your heart that no other has ever reached before.
Because of this, when things happen which makes the bond falter, we become scared or hurt.
Its not the love that hurts us,
Its the way we feel when the love is unstable. It is ourselves who inflict pain. Sure, the other might have caused it, but it is our strong feeling towards that person, is what hurts us.
At certain points in our life we think that love only brings pain but, it also grants you knowledge.
After your relationship ends, you learn more about yourself, the other person and what you want and don't want.
Past all the hurt and pain, comes understanding and enlightenment.
So in the future, you'll know what you're looking for and you might be able to look past all the things which might have caused the first heartbreak...
So in your new relationship, you can handle things better, and its all because of the one who crushed you in the past...

There are more struggles in the world, these are just the most common i suppose...
That's it for now...
There is always a way to solve a problem, though it might not be an exact answer, there is always a way out...

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